Stanislaw Lem’s novel Solaris says that a man needs a man. And it is true that each of us needs support, especially in difficult times. It turns out that there are special phrases that help to correctly show attention and sensitivity to the “victim” and do not make him feel awkward. And even worse, pathetic in the eyes of others. According to Psychologies.ru, these words will definitely allow you to engage your interlocutor in a sincere conversation.
“Just know that I am always with you and ready to talk if you want, or just be there.”
This phrase shows that you are ready to share your feelings with your interlocutor and sincerely relate to his problem.
“Yes, I too think this is difficult and unfair, but we will definitely get through it together.”
This statement lets the person know that you accept their feelings. If she feels that her experiences are recognized and not invalidated, she will find the strength to move on.
“I know it’s hard for you right now. I understand your feelings.”
This is how you express empathy.
“I have been in a similar situation, I know what to do. If it is important for you to hear about my experiences, I will definitely share them.
It can be useful for a person to know how another person behaved in a similar situation. But before giving advice, make sure he needs it.
“What can I do to help you?”
A question like this expresses a desire to do everything in your power to be helpful and helpful.
Source: People Talk
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