I recently had a massive pickup attack. It’s six guys coming to you in half an hour, with some kind of nonsense, no way out. And you manage to escape in horror. But someone does! We understand how to expose a pickup artist and not be a victim of it.
Too many compliments
It is when he says sweetly that tea can be drunk without sugar. And these are not just compliments from the series: “You have very beautiful eyes”, but something like: “You drive me crazy with one look, you have very long eyelashes and dark brown eyes …” this (I hope you do too), but at the same time expressive There are also young women. Remember one important thing: no one can make frilly compliments like on an assembly line, they are, in principle, very stingy in expressing feelings in words. Its sweet detail should alert you.
Violates the private space
He constantly sits closer to you or purposefully suddenly starts talking softly so you reach out for him. While walking, he constantly touches you with his shoulder or even his hip (although this is your first encounter), he can easily say something in your ear and even do it with a breath…
touches you often
Either she’ll fix her hair, then she’ll put it over her shoulder, then she’ll remove the lint from the dress. It will surely accidentally touch your hand or reach into your ear: “Great earrings, they look great on you.” You can’t get your hands on it! When parting, he will certainly not only try to kiss you meaningfully between your cheeks and lips, but will also try to hug you tightly.
doesn’t say anything about himself
He avoids your questions and always makes silly jokes. He always asks you something personal, but there is no answer. He’s acting like he’s mysterious, they say, and you’ll understand later, or they say it’s hard for him to talk about it.
talking in quotes
In a movie parody, the main character suddenly betrays his girlfriend during a fight: “The greater the power, the greater the responsibility” and the girl said to him: “Are you quoting Spider-Man?” Pretty much the same situation. Usually, in collection courses, it is recommended to read current literature and watch some movies so that there is something to talk about with a girl. Not everyone can cope with this task, but they start a book of quotes. If you hear pompous statements from him (usually the same thing several times in different interpretations), then try to ask: “It seems that this is from some kind of work?”
leads to emotions
There are tricks called “roof-nosing” and “needle”. In the first case, he should take you to an unusual place without warning or, for example, arrange an unpleasant situation in which you will feel uncomfortable. In this way, it takes you to the emotions, which is the source of the “connection”. The second option is to inadvertently offend you (after discovering your weak spots earlier) but immediately console you.
mysteriously disappears
After a few dates you haven’t yet managed to escape from him and there is still a glimmer of hope that he is. But suddenly it disappears. He does not read messages, does not answer calls, does not appear on social networks (by the way, this can happen to several girls at once). This is the next stage of collecting. It will appear after a while. Meanwhile it brings you back to the feelings and makes you think you are not good enough. Or another option: “What if something happens to him?”
gets angry easily
If she senses something is wrong, she becomes noticeably nervous, raises her voice, leaves for long periods (perhaps to talk to the coach), and is often erratic. Moreover, he himself often feels this and hastens to justify himself: “My dog is dead, I’m sorry. He was like a member of the family.”
i can’t play
He gets very angry if you don’t respond to his compliments or actions. Especially if you say: “You don’t need to get so close to me, because we still don’t know each other at all.” He does not tolerate rejection and may even say something insulting to you about your appearance. “They have some kind of redness on their hands, so it’s really better not to touch them.”
Do you still doubt that he is an incompetent man?
Source: People Talk
