It turns out that even the cute and harmless nicknames he gives you have a secret behind them. Pay attention to how often you are a cat or a bunny for him, and at what moments he calls you a star, a dream or a bear … We decided to find out what affectionate nicknames really mean.
dear, dear, darling
It’s hard for you and yourself to look for someone, not just your lover. First, it’s inappropriate. Such nicknames do not “beg for language.” Secondly, almost anyone can be called that. “My dear, can you tell me how to get to such and such street?” When you say so, you don’t want to tell a stranger that you respect them too much. You just don’t know how to address him. If your boyfriend calls you that, he probably isn’t considering a serious relationship. He calls you words that seem to express only tender feelings. Yes we know, you think the word “beloved” includes her most serious feelings. But calling you is not a confession of love at all.
Kitty, Zaya, Masya
A standard phrase that could be defined as “neither there nor here”. He doesn’t seem to limp, but he doesn’t act with very high emotions either. Most likely, you are at the initial stage of a relationship and plan to continue it, but you do not yet know how to behave with each other. So it turned out: “Zai, maybe we’ll go to the movies?” He seems to have sensitive feelings towards you, but he believes that simply calling him by name will not suffice.
Pupsik, Honey, Kitten
Sugary nicknames help us to make the image of our beloved more tender, more romantic and at the same time more vulnerable. There is a possibility that your partner is the real owner. He wants to dominate in relations, he will replace the main one. At the same time, he is sure that you are the main object of his concern. So if you decide to settle down, don’t be afraid of some “babies” at your address.
Baby, Sunny, I’m fine
Yes, just a piece of cotton candy! Chances are, he may still limp when he calls you that, or even caress your cheek or give you a hug from your parents. That’s not bad, but it does mean that he treats you lightly, albeit with tenderness, most of the time. By the way, surprisingly, he doesn’t mind if you start answering him the same way.
my soul, my sun
Most likely, you have been together for a long time and all these nicknames sound ironic. Of course, you are my soulmate, but somehow it is not customary to talk about this seriously, so I will call you when I report that I am washing the dishes and taking out the garbage. If you have been together recently, this clearly indicates serious intentions. And in general, my “soul” is a very personal and sublime thing, such charm can be proud of!
Olenka, Nastenka, Lenochka
Either he is a very kind man or he cannot escape his mother’s attention in any way. Or maybe he just wants to take care of you himself. As a rule, if men call us diminutive from names, they do not have a soul in us. This may sound strange and even offend you, but do not rush to frown and express your displeasure. Did you suddenly like it?
Eared, Dumpling, Darth Vader
And everything that sounds as silly and weird and funny as can be but unique! It’s like your own secret password, you can even call each other over the radio. These are just words that reflect your story. When he calls you Dumpling, it reminds you once again how much he loves you. And, of course, that he is fascinated by your habit of gnawing frozen meatballs… And of course, in no case does not envy your favorite villain Darth Vader, because you yourself periodically come to him with a helmet and a raincoat. …
Sweet Baby
Here, of course, the tone with which he pronounces it plays a role. But for the most part, that shouldn’t reassure you that he’s serious. Most likely, you just love spending time with each other, but this novel has a predetermined expiration date.
Source: People Talk