“My husband and I go out with other people with permission, there’s only one reason I’m envious”

Dr Lori Beth Bisbey, a sex / intimacy coach and clinical psychologist, spends her days working with individuals and couples about their bedroom problems.

However, he also admits that sometimes he has something of his own.

Although she has been in a happy and open relationship with her husband for more than 13 years, the polyamorous redhead admits that there are times when she feels “jealous” of him.

However, it’s not for the reason you expect.

Dr. Lori, who recently starred in the relationship on Channel 4’s Open House: The Great Sex Experiment, says she isn’t jealous because her husband, who is bisexual, is having sex with other couples.

She says she is only envious when he’s having fun and time constraints prevent her from doing the same.

Speaking of her open marriage, the sex expert, who hails from the US but now lives in the UK, told The Exclusive: “Our relationship works because we have clear boundaries.

“We are also not young and have been working on it for a long time.

“We don’t often get jealous because we’ve been together for 13.5 years.

“We had time to feel comfortable knowing that one of us is not going to go with someone else. This is something that people often worry about ”.

“We also have faith in ourselves, that’s another thing that causes jealousy if people aren’t sure.”

He continued: “However, sometimes envy comes into play. When one of us can have more fun because the other is busy doing other things.

“I work a lot, so if he can go out and have fun and I can’t, I might be jealous, but not the other person himself.”

Dr. Lori admits that she regularly has about three partners at a time, with whom she has emotional attachments.

He admits that he prefers to meet these people in person rather than online due to “catfishing” problems.

“I’ve met people online, but I tend to meet people in person,” he said.

“I’m not looking for fast sex, I like to take the time to meet people, so I tend to meet people at events.

“I’ve tried a little bit to go online, but it’s hard for me because there is so much catfishing.

“I don’t have time to examine and find out if people are real or not.

“I got the call, but I haven’t had a decent relationship yet that started online.”

Giving her best advice to anyone looking to experience a non-monogamous relationship, Dr. Lori said it’s important to be clear about what you want because there are so many different types.

He also said you should make sure your partner is clear about what they want to avoid confusion.

Another tip was to be “ahead” with your wants and needs.

“Don’t wait six months to tell someone you want an open relationship,” she warned.

“Some people don’t do it because they don’t want to scare people, but it often causes problems because people usually hang out at the time and then find that they’re not really compatible.”

He also said to be honest, get professional help soon, and don’t search the Internet too much.

The sexpert added: “Take your time and get ready to try new things.

“Also, not trying an open relationship when it is already in crisis will not save your relationship.”

Dr. Lori admits that non-monogamy “isn’t a good way to live for everyone,” but says she doesn’t think monogamy is either.

“I’m passionate about people being able to choose,” he said.

“For some people, including myself, non-monogamy offers a higher level of satisfaction.

“It’s because their needs are better met.”

She added: “Since I’m attracted to more than one gender, if I’m monogamous, it means I’m limiting a lot of my sexuality, since I’m limiting myself to one person.”

Giving his final conclusion on the subject, he said: “People are generally happier if they choose something, rather than if they feel they have no choice.”

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