In search of a new normality: Why do we want to be so different and so different? Answers Vladimir Solovyov, the author of the “child’s modest charm”

All the internet regularly goes crazy with new trends. Very long ago, we loved and appreciated the beautiful “licked” paintings and an ideal life. Now, the trend in all manifestations is in the trend: from the backgrounds in the video to hair styles. As the diligent members of the society, we strongly hurry to these tendencies, we try not to be left behind and to be unique. But sitting in all chairs, even lying, he won’t come out. Finally, we were confused in the world, the foamy TG channel, the author of the “Children’s Mutual Charm”, Vladimir Solovyov, we asked him to cut this Gordian knot and understand what was happening.

Hello, my good! Many of you probably said a “new normality .. In general, this is an economic term designed to explain that the chaos and the hole in the pocket are natural temporary challenges during the Great Depression. Already in the 21st century, the new normality was remembered during the 2008 global crisis and the pandemia of the Coronavirus. In a sense, the term meant the adoption of dynamic and chaotic reality. That is, the presence of the fifth point is a medical fact and the depth is temporary, but suitable for research. I thought that the quest for a new normality could be expanded in the internal plan – what we eat, how we dress, what we listen to and how we behave.

We are trying to highlight and declare our individuality, but we are paradoxically similar to each other. Today, there are two tendencies that exclude each other at the peak of popularity. On the one hand, when the structural structure should have the intentional flaws of our entire appearance and lifestyle: from controlled negligence to food and digital detox, on the other hand, naturalness ironed from beige patterns in clothes and a make -up, social meters and unpleasant green salad. Both is a new, carefully designed normality dictated with fatigue of hypergian, endless touches and artificial ideals. But are these properly selected behavioral patterns so natural?

In part, this is an excessive saturation of digital dependence, the flow of a large false balloon from reel, retired people, verified sewing, but not only for short -term tendencies. This negotiation is the desire to be “like everyone else, but of course“ a little better ”,“ a little more natural ”. Personality, no makeup makeup, Gothic comb with interdaeules image alternately and smoothly naked lofors and white new balance immediately after the new balance of the therapy sessions and acid parties with acid parties, three -day rain and Kadysheva’nın visiting the concerts, absolutely certainly, absolutely, certainly ends as a result. Not to mention not to forget the status or avatar to remind the status or avatar to be environmentally friendly and respect for personal boundaries, to perform a respiratory practice in the morning and to have time to conflict with his colleagues.

Aren’t you tired yet? Maybe taking a meditation break?

So, let’s try to understand what this “normality” is measured? In the amount of efforts to create the illusion of “life without efforts”. In the number of watches spent in front of the mirror, the similarity of actions to create life without tension and show a lifestyle without these actions.

The ironic is that this carefully constructed normality, time, money and most importantly, attention – requires significant investments.

The ton is adjusted by marketers through algorithms of bargaining, social networks and effects, through verified local texts and advertising integrations, by skillfully translating “sincerity”, creating another addiction through carefully thought -out content.

In order to remove itself from the world of “Pope” and to create the illusion of proximity to “real life” while remaining in the trend, because even individuality has become a product in the modern world.

Now you have to take a deep breath and relax.

It should be understood that cyclicness in the age of trends is inevitable. For the last two centuries, the world’s development has legalized with the science of psychology and CT in addition to industrial, digital and sexual revolutions. Being a fashion victim is not very scary, sometimes even pleasant if you control yourself, if you control yourself. The whole fashion story is a pendulum that constantly fluctuates between artificiality and naturalism between extravagance and minimalism. Remember, 10 years ago, the natural fur was anatematic and clearly corrects the trend of fashion for the latest fashion weeks. In addition, it is supported by research on more damage to ecology than removal of real fur. Although we do not know how to investigate the same fashion with you.

It is necessary to admit that the trend spiral is bent faster, and this leads to the repetition of the new winding during the fashion period and accordingly. Tomorrow, “Naturalness” will inevitably return in a new, repetitive interpretation that is tired, saturated and again brighter, exaggerated, exaggerated. Continuous search for individuality is a reflection of our desire for self -expression, self -expression and belonging, even if there is another carefully selected fashion accessory to create the right impression, a Altushka, Beige Mother, Old Mani lady or every one you want to appear tomorrow.

But just in case, come another … Meditation.