It’s great when your mom is your best friend and you can talk to her about anything. But what if it’s not the case for you? On Family, Love and Loyalty Day, psychologist and family coach Anastasia Nelidova told The Fashion Vibes how everyone can improve relationships with the most important people in their lives – their mothers.
Interest
Show interest in mom! And ask questions not only about current events but also about her life (for example, how she met your dad). It will be beneficial for you to get to know each other better!
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Ask for his opinion on various issues. Firstly, he will be pleased and secondly, he can give really good advice.
Changing roles
When you disagree with something, put yourself in your mother’s shoes; try to analyze what she thinks, why she does it, why she says it. You will be surprised, but at some points you will take her side.
Common interests
Shopping, cooking, TV series; it can be anything. The important thing is that it brings positive emotions. A pleasant activity experienced (even if it is just watching a good movie) always brings you closer together.
Homework
Make a list of the moments in your relationship with your mother that do not suit you (as you write, you will realize that some of them are definitely forced). Ask your mother to make the same list. Sit in a comfortable environment and calmly discuss why you cannot hear each other.
Advice
There is nothing wrong with consulting a professional regarding this issue. Every relationship needs work!
Source: People Talk
Errol Villanueva is an author and lifestyle journalist who writes for The Fashion Vibes. With a passion for exploring the latest trends in fashion, food, travel, and wellness, Errol’s articles are a must-read for anyone interested in living a stylish and fulfilling life.
