Relationships with a young man: all the pros and cons

Yes, women now most often choose relationships with younger men, and not with their peers and older men. Why is this happening?

They say that you feel younger next to such a man. And to this is automatically added the desire to look better and be interested in what your younger counterpart loves so much.

But there are also many problems in such relationships. Perhaps the most important thing is public opinion. After all, when you see a student arm in arm with a mature woman, the first thing that comes to mind is: “Alphonse.” Of course, there is logic in this. But if these statements are not supported by anything, you can safely ignore them.

By the way, men are also very willing to date older women. It’s simple: now taking care of yourself has become easier and more accessible, so a girl over 35 is indistinguishable in appearance from a 20-year-old girl. They are more experienced (both in life and in bed) and open to everything new.

The main thing in such relationships is not to cross the line between romance and morality, otherwise the result will not be a connection between two lovers, but a very strange tandem “mother and son”, where the “mother” will teach wisdom. The “son” will run away soon (He is tired of his mother too).

And most importantly, forget about other people’s opinions. If you feel good, why should you think about anyone else? Enjoy your life.

pros

Scientists say that a man’s peak sexual activity occurs between the ages of 21 and 25. But women bloom after thirty. So an older lady and a young man are perfect for each other in bed.

It is quite possible to “tailor” a younger man for yourself. You just need to do it carefully – and in the end there will be a perfect couple.

Young people, unlike their older comrades, have not yet lost the ability to take life lightly and have fun.

When a man grows up, he automatically sees himself as the head of the family. But the relationship between a young man and a mature woman is more like a partnership – they consider themselves equals.

The man is unlikely to limit your freedom: go where you want and with whomever you want.

Cons

It should be noted that a woman’s sexual activity is not endless. And over time, libido will begin to decrease.

You should always remember that a man can be irresponsible for two reasons. 1. Masculine in nature. 2. Because he will know: If something happens, you will support and help him. This can make you angry very quickly.

Meanwhile, check out these power celebrity couples: Deborra-Lee Furness, 62, and Hugh Jackman, 49, have been happily married since 1996; Cameron Diaz (46) married Benji Madden (39), who is seven years younger than her; Shakira’s husband (41), football player Gerard Pique, is 10 years younger than the singer.

Svetlana, 55

Five years ago I married a man 16 years younger than me. Before that I was married to someone my age for 27 years, we had been together since school. For the last few years, my wife and I have lived different lives, we were bored with each other, there was no talk of any gender. We divorced and literally a few months later I met my future husband. At first I was very scared: what would people think? But he calmed me down and told me not to pay attention to anyone. Then I began to notice that I began to pay more attention to myself, I wanted to look stylish next to my man. I’m happy now.

Christina, 26

I have some kind of weakness for young men. The difference between one and three years is insignificant, but I really like to feel more important and experienced. I also like to have fun in correspondence and skillfully troll them. This always lifts my spirits.

Artem Pashkin, private practice psychologist

A couple where the woman is older is not a natural relationship. The fact that there are now more and more such couples speaks of problems with psychological maturation in modern society. Men and women then learn or deny this knowledge why they are there, what they can do as men and women, what their powers are, which path is completely against their nature. Thus, young people begin to live more and more independently, and the majority of families established at a young age break up after a few years. Because family is an activity for mentally mature people. Unlike physical birth, we are responsible for our mental birth and it is always our choice whether we live a happy life or not.