No girlfriend: where to look for quality circle

When you were a kid it was enough to offer someone a friendship, and now you already have a friend. As an adult, this process is a little more difficult. Over the years, our social circle narrows and we become more selective about people.

Often this leads to the fact that after the age of 20 a girl’s social circle consists mainly of her partner and family. This is because he parted ways with his old friends and has nowhere to make new ones.

This task is especially difficult for introverts. Such people are ready to bring close to themselves only those whom they can trust. But to find such a person is extremely difficult. And even more difficult – someone with whom it will be not only comfortable and interesting to spend time, but also possible to develop and grow together.

How to search for girlfriends and that very high quality environment? Especially for The Fashion Vibes, Victoria Brius, like-minded mentor and founder of the “First – Me” women’s club, talked about how and where to find people with whom you can form truly high-quality friendships.

Victoria Brius, Thinking Mentor

What is a quality environment?

It is extremely important to have people around you that you admire and want to emulate. The people who grow with you are that quality environment. These are the ones you will get:

• support and assistance in difficult situations;

• motivation for development and improvement;

• Opportunities for the implementation of ideas and projects.

This is especially valuable when you and your friend have similar views of the world. You can share valuable experiences with each other and explore new aspects of life, without forgetting support and mutual assistance.

Why is it important for a girl to have girlfriends?

Many do not see the problem in reducing a woman’s circle to only her husband and relatives. Especially if this communication is completely suitable for him and meets his needs. But the absence of girlfriends greatly affects women’s well-being, and this will be felt more and more severely as the years go by.

The presence of girlfriends very strongly charges the female energy, giving it strength and love. No matter how much you trust your soulmate, the opportunity to discuss something with your soulmate is always valuable. No one can support a girl like a friend does. The important thing is to have similar experiences, baggage from similar situations and therefore the ability to help you at certain moments.

Connecting with female friends in a unique way enriches feminine energy, creating intimate and open communication. Husband and girlfriend occupy different niches in a woman’s life, each of which is unique and irreplaceable.

In conversations with your friends, you can share your feelings, worldviews, experiences and joys by feeling completely understood and accepted. This allows you to open and realize your aspirations, strengthen your self-confidence and bring creative ideas to life. Feminine energy finds balance and harmony in communication with like-minded people who help, inspire and support to tackle problems from different angles.

Two close friends can create impossible things as they will motivate each other, gain confidence in their abilities and ideas, and provide resources for the implementation of various ideas.

Women’s communication can create a space where every girl feels valued, accepted and capable of anything. This is very important in terms of his emotional and psychological state.

3 ways to find quality media

Method #1: Join a sorority

People come to these places for a common purpose: to find a comfortable environment and good friends. At the same time, in women’s clubs, your meetings will always be scheduled for a specific event: book discussions, city tours, business classes and personal development trainings, photo shoots for a specific topic. When choosing a women’s club, you should pay attention to what exactly it specializes in.

If you are more interested in personal development, discover clubs that focus on lectures, master classes and training. If your goal is to have fun and learn something new, a club that often hosts creative workshops such as clay modeling, dance, or themed evenings dedicated to discussions of books, movies or drawings is right for you.

Since you will attend the general class in the evening women’s club, you and the others will have the opportunity to discuss topics and get to know each other in a relaxed atmosphere, which greatly simplifies the matter.

Method number 2: Join the network

There are networking sites in almost every city. It can be a separate place or a whole community of specialists. Just like a women’s club, every networking has its own mood and target audience. While someone specializes in development and training specialists, someone brings together experts from various fields and fields to create joint projects and collaborations.

Networking events include business conferences, expert events, meetings with leading professionals in specific fields, as well as training and business games. Choose a place to your liking; there will be people who share your interests waiting for you.

Method number 3: Lead social networks

The most popular place for dating is social networks. It is easy to find a person with similar interests and views on the Internet, because often all this information is found on his personal page. In order for this acquaintance to have a chance to turn into a friendship, it is sufficient to write and start a dialogue first.