Try Again: 5 Signs That Sex Has Failed

Every girl gets a new sexual partner once in her life. And if the process of courtship and intimacy causes awe and interest, then the intimate component can cause a significant number of questions and experiences.

What’s there to worry about? Literally about everything, especially if the new chosen one makes you feel the most tender feelings. Relationships develop as they should: you’re interested, you’re having fun and all, but questions about sex arise.

Here comes that exciting first time. Each of you expects something incredible from him, and it’s great that those expectations are met. However, many couples are not lucky after a date that ends in bed.

It would seem that the mechanics are standard and straightforward, and people are arranged according to the same scheme – what could go wrong? Anything can happen, and in this article we’ve collected 5 signs that sex isn’t a success.

Sign 1: Lack of Inventory

The main sign of unsuccessful sex is the absence of the necessary elements to participate in it. So, if a partner provoked you, but did not adjust himself … nothing will work. Because there is nothing.

It also happens that the mood is fulfilled, but something is already broken in the process. It’s a pity, of course, but it’s worth trying again a little later. Maybe the guy was just nervous or had a rough day.

Sign 2: Sudden sleep

To continue. If one of you falls asleep in the process, sex can safely be recorded as a failure. The situation is strange and hopeless. Trying to wake the one who sold you in a dream is not worth it.

Does it make sense to try again? Perhaps if the sudden sleep is caused by excessive alcohol or fatigue. If someone falls asleep from boredom … you are not on your way.

Sign 3: Frustrated Hopes

Sometimes expectations don’t match reality. You can be madly attracted to each other and any touch can cause a storm of emotions and excitement. And now, the moment X comes, you look forward to the crazy feelings, the game begins but … you feel nothing, even less, than you imagined. And this is a banal inconsistency that warrants frustration.

It’s embarrassing and sad, but you shouldn’t judge strictly for the first time. Sometimes the long-awaited sex fails, but it won’t be a miracle if this trend continues for the second or even third time.

Sign #4: You’ve Been Caught

That very awkward moment when there were more than two people in the process and intimate life took on a public color. A friend or relative who comes in suddenly, a dog who thinks it’s an exciting game and decides to take part. Whoever it was, you weren’t expecting it and it confused you too.

After the appearance of an unexpected guest, sexual intercourse is unlikely to have a happy ending. Well, try another time.

Sign 5: Different Perspectives

We used to call this item the “Important Discussion First” rubric. And this is important – a method of contraception. We absolutely support condom use, but not every partner gets this positive side. There are self-confident characters who believe that rubber products violate their rights and interfere with intimate life.

And so, if this detail is opened at the moment of X, the flame goes out. One side does not want to risk their health and freedom (and we know that condoms protect not only against unwanted pregnancies but also against sexually transmitted infections), while the other side does not want to take away selfish pleasure.

In general, when arguing about contraception and persuading each other to score on principles or go to the pharmacy, the sexual mood sadly leaves your evening.