Woman angry at man’s comment after blowjob

A woman sparks a heated argument after she was offended by a mention of a new love interest after they became close.

On the UK parenting forum mumsnet, the woman in her thirties said she had slept with a man she had been dating for a few weeks, but that after oral sex she “tasted a little bit hard” and advised her to drink more water.

He said his health advice was “underappreciated” and he didn’t want to see it again, but commenters were divided.

Some argued that it was good for him to be so open and honest and said he was overly sensitive.

Others, however, said they would view the comment as a “red flag” and supported the decision not to see it again.

The woman explained that she was uncomfortable with the timing of the comment right after they had sex for the first time.

Describing how the situation developed, the woman said, “I’ve been dealing with a man for the past few weeks, we’re both over 30.

“He seems like a nice guy and it went great. We slept together for the first time tonight, it was great that he was so generous in bed.”

But things went wrong when she gave him oral sex and she told him, “I think you should drink more water, it tastes pretty harsh.”

“It was really painful for me, I’m sure it wasn’t anything painful, and maybe I’m hypersensitive, but why say that if women/girls are known to be paranoid about how they look/smell/taste out there?

“She’s not a gynecologist so her health advice wasn’t appreciated. He could see that this was upsetting me and tried to come back by saying “I didn’t mean it that way” and “I love you, the last thing I want to do is insult you, I was just trying to help you”. But now I just see it as a red flag”.

Commentators advised the woman not to be too sensitive, saying she probably felt comfortable saying things because they had achieved this level of intimacy.

Her post deeply divided commentators, with many praising her for raising it and asking if there was any truth to it.

“Did you notice that it smells pretty strong?” Was he right?’ someone wrote. “Looks like she was a little offended too, but respect her for removing it and don’t expect you to ask why she didn’t remove it anymore and then you’d be embarrassed.

“Only you know how that was said, but there are no immediate warning signs for me.”

Commentators praised the man for his honesty and said it was definitely better for him to talk straight away rather than stop giving blowjobs because he was discouraged.

Another said, “He said out loud, that’s all. He didn’t say terrible or bad. Why do you think this is a bad thing?’

One reviewer claiming to be a former health professional replied, “I would also recommend that a partner with a strong odor see their doctor and have their kidney function checked as well!

In fact, I insist my husband eat a lot of pineapple before planning oral sex! If it were me, I would find this man’s candor. Grab some pineapple to eat together and joke about it ».

Another user claimed that the man did the “right thing” by saying something.

“He’s trying to politely say it smells like old pee. I’d love to have a blowjob with my wife and would have said politely if they’d taken a bath,” she wrote.

“If they were broken enough to have big trophies, I would leave the relationship. It doesn’t look like he’s trying to embarrass you, it’s very important that your partner is clean before sex.

Others, however, disagreed with an inscription: I think you would be crazy to see him again, with one describing him as a “charming idiot” while another claimed he was “vulgar and painful” and said “I am”. I would be angry too.’

Another agrees, adding: ‘You have to trust your instincts one hundred percent. It’s embarrassing to find yourself in a vulnerable position after having sex for the first time.

“You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to. You don’t owe him anything.

However, other commentators insisted they would be deterred and supported the woman’s decision not to see him again.