Summer holidays are often synonymous with camping. My head is full of memories. Groups of friends, laughter, first flirtations, sleepless nights, hiking and kayaking… And this separation is welcome after a demanding school year. My parents haven’t left yet but I know in advance that I would feel a certain relief (and a little pang in my heart) when they leave them on the station platform. But the relief will be short-lived, because the last two little ones are waiting for me at home. But knowing that they are far away from me also stresses me a little. How can I prevent dangers? How can I keep them away from predators? These are the messages I give them.
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- “Secrets are no fun”
Secrets are confusing and dangerous for children. “You don’t have to keep a secret that hurts you, that disgusts you, that embarrasses you. You always have the right to talk about it with another adult, even if you’re being blackmailed.”
- “Let me know if you are having trouble dealing with a conflict”
In a colony full of enthusiastic children, conflict is inevitable. It is best to prepare your child to handle these delicate situations. Whether witnessing or victimizing a hostile colonist, let him know that he can always ask for help and advice.
- “Private parties have special rules”
“You know this, but I’ll say it again. No one should ask you to see or touch your private parts, and no one should ask you to do the same. If this happens, tell a trusted adult immediately.” - “If a girl says no, it doesn’t mean yes”
And if it doesn’t say anything, it doesn’t even mean yes. Teaching consent is one of the fundamental missions of parents. From an early age, it is possible to educate children about consent. It concerns sexuality, but also everyday life.
- “You can talk to me about anything, anytime”
“Every day has its good and bad moments. You can share the good and bad with me. If you feel sad, call me.”
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