The imagery conveyed by today’s pornography clearly is not “women-friendly”. Many sexist and misogynistic clichés persist and are still broadcast in these videos intended for solo pleasure. Numerous intellectuals, feminists and specialists have thus highlighted the “male gaze” that rages in porn films: according to them, these films paint an image of sexuality based exclusively on the male point of view – and more specifically, from the perspective of the man cisgender heterosexual. The famous “POV” videos (the so-called “Point of view”) bear witness to this: rare are those set from the heterosexual female point of view, with the camera pointed at a man’s face while he performs cunnilingus. , For example. So many reasons to dedicate yourself to feminist porn.
In this sense, different popular sexual practices in pornographic films they are not actually in real life. Among these we find male ejaculation made on another person: the famous “ cumshot » or “money shot”. The fact of expelling one’s sperm onto a part of the other’s body would be greatly appreciated by partners. In the mouth, on the chest, on the lower back, on the buttocks: according to the pornographic sites that flood us with videos on the subject, ejaculation therefore triggers passions. A study published last year, however, shatters this illusion.
Facial or oral ejaculation: a practice not as popular as porn would have us believe
Conducted on nearly 300 consumers of pornographic videos of different socio-cultural origins, this study seeks to discover the perceptions and preferences of the interviewees – women and men – regarding male ejaculation; the importance they attribute to it in their sexual life; and the placement of sperm on the partner’s body. Contrary to what one might think, “Very few viewers expressed a preference for ejaculating on a woman’s face or mouth. »*
Eran Shor, the researcher who conducted the study, suggests that the majority of individuals interviewed said they did not care about the location of ejaculation, or did not express a particular preference for ejaculation in the mouth or on the face (27%) . Other respondents even said they preferred men to ejaculate inside the vagina of the woman being penetrated (38% of all respondents, 48% of women in the sample). Only 9% of respondents explicitly said they would prefer to see a woman get cum on her face. Even more surprising is that other individuals have admitted to having considered it the ejaculation was “unattractive” or even “disturbing.”
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