I want to have a threesome (or more), but where can I find partners?

March 30, 2017

In another article I explained to OKLM the basics of organizing a group plan. It’s important, but it’s not everything.

Because if you want a threesome or an orgy, you have two solutions: wait for it to happen to you by chance or take the initiative. My #1 rule in life is that luck takes its course.

Here you are, Starting the movement starts by having the necessary meetings. But where and how to find suitable people for this Tetris group?

I have several leads. So, take notes! Here we are at the second part of the practical guide to threesomes (or more).

In what order should you invite partners on a group plan?

This is when I get glasses multi-storey doctor and I ask you to listen wisely.

The first difficulty you may encounter is that single women who accept this type of invitation are in the minority and therefore rather complicated to find.

This phenomenon is undoubtedly linked to slut shame, that is, judging women who have liberated sexuality (while doing what they want with their ass). So if you’re looking to organize a group plan, I recommend two strategies!

Invite women before men

When I did the math exercises, I started by finding the solution to the simplest problem before doing the others. It’s easy, this is the opposite strategy.

We start with the most complicated, so once folded, the rest flows by itself. Also, the beautiful thing is this the girls will thus be able to participate in choosing the other invited men (if present)which will help them feel more confident.

Invite couples

Couples who, like you, want to have fun together. And believe me, allows many games !

Where to find people ready for group sex?

All this will probably make you look good if you still don’t know where to find all these beautiful people who only dream of having fun together. Here are some ideas…

Dating sites and apps

If you’re starting from scratch, this is probably the easiest way to achieve your goals. Two strategies are possible in this game.

The first is to go to a site or application dedicated to sexual encounters : For example Welibertini, Listen OR Fetal life if you are more focused on BDSM.

The second is to use a classic dating site specifying in your ad that you are looking to have fun together. To be completely honest, sometimes I come across profiles like these, but I have no idea how successful their approach has been..

Visit libertine clubs

These places where making love is allowed can be an excellent solution since the public who goes there really knows very well why they are there. Like it didn’t come in just because there was light, you see.

Be careful though: these structures can be impressive for a first experience, they are relatively expensive (up to one hundred euros for a couple in Paris) and often have a relatively elderly audience (i.e. people in their forties and older).

A visit to a libertine club, it’s always a surprise : one evening can be quiet when, the next day, an orgy of several dozen people spontaneously takes place.

Another thing to take into consideration: you need to be comfortable with the idea of ​​seeing people make love… and be seen. Madeline is used to libertine clubs. She testifies:

“ I remember my first visit to a club. It was pretty quiet, so I I started sleeping with my boyfriend in a small corner. While we were naked as worms and in full action, me straddling him, I looked to my left… And I realized that about ten people were watching ussome while masturbating. I enjoyed it because I have a bit of an exhibitionist side but it’s not really for everyone. »

Search your pool of old flirts/sexual projects

Another solution is to do what in journalism would be called “ the tour of the sources “.

Concretely, you look in your list if you find an old flirt, pick up, ex pick up or even ex in short (for whom you no longer have feelings, unless the suffering scares you), and you call those and those who could be interested and interesting.

For people in open relationships, the easiest thing is to do so propose a group plan to people you see nearby.

Little advice : The end does not justify the means. Just as during a sexual shortage, it can happen that a plan is terrible, in the case of a strong desire to fulfill a fantasy, one can say yes a little too easily to someone meh.

Doing so is a bit like eating a piece of bread while dreaming of pizza: it will definitely be disappointing. And no one likes to be disappointed.

You can find partners for a group plan everywhere (or almost everywhere)

Actually, you can meet people for a threesome or an orgy almost anywhere. What is still practical about this fantasy is that it is shared by more people than, for example, that of being urinated on.

In general it is important to know this the less likely the situation is to have consequences, the more people will dare to let go.

In essence: proposing an orgy to a colleague seems compromised (or even completely inappropriate) when, in other situations, a pinch of honesty is enough for everything to go wrong…

Do you want a threesome/multiple sex? say that. The worst thing that can happen is that the person doesn’t share this desire… And so that doesn’t happen.

In the case of orgies, a good way to bring people is to suggest that each participant bring a +1, or even more… Specify carefully whether you want this extra person to be of one gender or another.

That’s everything for me today. I will be back very soon with part 3 of this guide, which I will talk about the logistical aspect of this type of fantasy. Now that you have the people on hand, there’s still a little preparation to make this evening perfect!

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