Pamela Anderson concludes the i’s in her memoir Love, Pamela. She became the narrator of her own story, often told without her consent or involvement. The book takes readers behind the scenes of Pamela’s turbulent childhood and traces her journey from a Canadian small-town girl to an international sex symbol.
“Who I am and this is a combination of everything I know and I have always believed that the desire to be a sensual person or to be sexual should not conflict with reason,” Pamela writes. Her memories lift the veil on every corner of her life. We have must-haves for you!
About child abuse and rape
Pamela says her childhood was interrupted by abuse, a fact she has mentioned before but never in such detail. She remembers being abused by her babysitter as a child, and this continued until she died in a car accident years later. She also claims that her parents often quarreled and her father, who struggled with alcoholism, sometimes persecuted her mother and even allegedly once held her face over a burning stove for she.
Pamela writes that the experience prepared her for a series of relationships that worsened throughout her adolescence: “Growing up, I noticed that many of my boyfriends were bad and were getting worse and worse. They quickly became cruel, vile, ruthless.”
She was raped by a 13-year-old friend. Her first boyfriend physically threw her out of a moving car and then tried to crush her. Another boy coordinated a group attack on him with “at least four, maybe six” friends, he writes. Pamela later recalls a boyfriend who stripped her naked and left her in the bushes outside, and another boyfriend who threw a silver bowl at her head.
On marriage to Tommy Lee
Pamela met and married Mötley Crüe vocalist Tommy Lee on a weekend trip to Cabo. they all seemed completely sincere. We had no doubt that we were made for each other.”
About Pamela and Tommy’s Case with Penthouse Magazine
Pamela and Tommy soon came under relentless press surveillance and sued Penthouse (an erotic entertainment magazine for men) for violating their privacy rights. As fans already know, the case failed, but Pamela’s book describes the atrocities committed against her in the witness room.
“I felt empowered when I entered the room, but when I saw my nude photos hung behind the lawyers sitting across the table, my heart tightened. One lawyer was foaming at the mouth, and white matter was pooling at the corners. From the other side of the room you could feel his sick and relentlessly strained breath.
Pamela writes that her lawyers told her she “didn’t have the right to privacy because I appeared on Playboy.” I got question after question and possibly interesting suggestions about my body, my sexual positions, my sexual preferences, the places I had sex.
About low
Pamela writes that while working on filming Don’t Call Me Baby before the birth of her two sons, she miscarried around the time the sex tape was leaked. He attributes the stress of shooting the movie – and Tommy’s occasional violent outbursts to his alleged crew members – to the causes of the loss.
On physical abuse by Tommy Lee
Pamela and Tommy broke up after being arrested for assaulting Pamela in front of their sons Brandon and Dylan. “My fingernail was cut off and blood was running down my arm. The kids were so scared. I lifted Brandon, but helplessly he slid down my leg and clutched his leg, panting. Tommy pulled Brandon away from me. He pushed me away and threw Dylan and me against the wall. I was so scared he was in pain – screaming and only seven weeks old. Tommy rushed out the door with Brandon reaching out and yelling “Mom!”
The incident resulted in Tommy Lee being sentenced to prison, as well as an order to protect Pamela and the children. However, Pamela writes with a forgiving feeling that she and Tommy kept going out in violation of her orders: “She stole my window and we had sex in the car in front of my house. Lawyers and psychotherapists strictly ordered me to stay away from him, but we couldn’t help ourselves. We’re in each other’s arms again.”
The resumption of relations did not occur, and Pamela and Tommy divorced in 1998. She has since been married five more times—to Kid Rock, twice to Rick Salomon, Jon Peters, and Dan Hayhurst. She talks sparingly about her other husbands for the rest of the book.
Earlier, Pamela had also spoken candidly about a sex tape, a letter from Lily James, and the show “Pam and Tommy”, about nearly killing her nanny and divorcing Tommy Lee.
Source: People Talk
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