The divorces they are hard to beat. Suddenly there is a void where there used to be a person and somehow we have to build a new life for ourselves as we get used to a new normal only. This is exactly what sentimental breakups are about, adapt to a new routine in which loneliness seems to play the leading role every moment and to learn who we are when we are alone.
Taking a break at the same time it leads to us having more time to dedicate to ourselves which we used to plan as a couple. Every cloud has a silver lining. At first it may seem at weather. Ultimately precious time to take care of ourselves and spend on activities that we could put off before sine die.
While every breakup feels hopelessly personal, the truth is that it’s a… universal experience that all humans go through at one time or another. And if we’ve learned anything from it, while any breakup can feel as intense as if it were the first time we’ve faced it, it’s that time softens the damage and softens the wounds until we recover and feel ourselves again.
The history of literature has given a good picture of this process and the feelings it causes, as well as the stages of mourning who cross this harrowing path. These stories have been told in the key of comedy, to show that time is the best balm that puts everything in perspective; also in the form of heartbreaking drama not to underestimate, and has been, the difficulty associated with the stages that must be overcome before a personal rebirth is achieved told in the first personproving that the process of picking up the pieces and mending a broken heart is something we can empathize with very easily.
Taking into account all these interesting points of view, we have a list of: essays and novels that are based on this experience and which can help put things into perspective the pit while escaping reality, to learn more about human nature and find a guide to regain emotional stability.
Since its launch, special emphasis has been placed on the fact that: Ottesa Moshfegh is ‘A novel about not wanting to get out of bed’. In it the narrator of this story In 2000, he decides to lock himself up in his Manhattan apartment for a year to devote himself to watching Whoopi Goldberg and Harrison Ford films.. Aided by a myriad of drugs and aside from any human link, the main character wonders if what she really wants is to persevere live—since he discovered his strategy works—or really live despite the scars it brings.
nora ephron – journalist, screenwriter and director of films like Something to remember, You have an email Y julie and julia – in this ‘novel in code’, and in a comical way, the wreckage of a seemingly perfect marriagewho shares many similarities with his Carl Bernstein, one of the famous reporters who published the water gate case. Published in 1984, the cake is finished soon became bestseller in the United States and was adapted to the big screen with Meryl Streep and Jack Nicholson as protagonists.
In this story of rupture told from a male point of view, Nick Hornby claims that not only women are the ones who repeat Bridget Jones’ pattern when they go through a heartbreak – camping in their living room, in pajamas and with a quart of ice cream in each hand -, through the figure of a music fan who decides to make one Top 5 of their most painful partings.
Elizabeth Gilbert tells how the author decides after a personal crisis take a long journey to start over. Italy, India and Indonesia will be the three chosen destinations for this emotional ‘set-up’.
Or how to deal with a breakup, even if you are still married and there has been no incident to make the opposite decision. novel.
This novel by Rachel Cusky belongs to a trilogy facing divorce and its aftermath. Specifically, remains It is based on the author’s experience, how her life fell apart after her divorce from photographer Adrian Clarke and how she got it back together.
When your heart is broken it may seem like the end of the world, but it isn’t. Nothing is further from reality. While it’s very hard to see and the idea doesn’t seem tempting at all right then, the truth is that it’s a chance to start something new. And this can mean a new love or a new life.
Toby Fleishman thought he knew what to expect when he and his wife broke up: weekends and… alternative holidays with the kids, sporadic moments of tension to negotiate thousands of things and the need to build a new life that little bit would look like the conjugal (this is what I had most clearly, the truth). What he didn’t count on in any way is that Rachel, his ex, would one day leave the kids at home and never come back.
Jude, Willem, JB and Malcolm are four friends who meet in college and whose lives are intertwined throughout their lives. in your twenties until quarantine. Through its nearly a thousand pages, the stories about their relationships and their personal evolution It will eventually imprison you, force you to think of nothing else and help you understand that a breakup, even if it hurts the soul, is not the worst thing that can happen to us in life.
Marian Keyes applies the principle of ‘Murphy’s law’ – which says that ‘If something bad can happen, it will happen‘ – in the life of its protagonist, Claire Walsh: just on the day she gives birth to her first child, her husband leaves her. Does Claire crawl under the duvet and refuse to get out? Just a little. Then it rises from its ashes like a phoenix.
Source: Marie Claire
