Going through a pregnancy can be difficult for many parents.

But some high-risk people may need their partner to be with them at all times.

Now a woman is facing the same dilemma as her husband that he has to leave her for 10 days.

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The partner is planning an all-inclusive trip with his colleagues, while the wife will stay at home with her young son.

Posting on Reddit’s “Am I the Asshole” forum, he explained what was going on and asked for advice.

She said her partner had to travel for 10 days when she would be 32 to 33 weeks pregnant.



Woman at her baby shower

The mother said: “While I would like him to come and have fun, there are several reasons why I don’t feel good about him.

She said her pregnancy was high risk and that she would take care of her young son while he was away.

Also, they recently moved to another continent and don’t have a support network, despite being gone for 10 days.

It would be 15 hours from now when he reached his 32-week score with an increased risk of preeclampsia.

She added: “Even though I don’t want to be the one to tell him he can’t go, I said I felt uncomfortable with him leaving.

“He says he’s feeling bad, but he’s not thinking about canceling.

“Am I the fool to make him feel guilty for making this trip? Or is it a fool to put him above the welfare of his wife and her children? “

People told the woman that it was not wrong for her to want her husband’s support while she was pregnant.



Cropped shot of a pregnant Asian woman touching her belly and lower back, suffering from back pain. Health in pregnancy, wellness concept

One said, “If you don’t reconsider this trip and stay home, I’ll reconsider the whole marriage!”

Another added, “If your husband is still planning on making this trip, regardless of the risk to you and your baby, then he’s the asshole.

“And you have to remind him that right now you are the priority, not a European vacation. Put your foot down. “

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