If love is for rent: 7 rules of vacation love

It is summer vacation time. We all relax in different ways: someone makes a list of mandatory activities, someone sunbathes on the beach, and there are those for whom relaxation is above all new feelings from a romantic adventure. This format is suitable for those who are not in a relationship for a number of reasons and do not take their holiday love too seriously. It is important to clarify that this is characteristic of such stories: a bright emotional outburst, passion, physical intimacy, skipping acquaintance with each other’s life, and most importantly – no obligations.

Comfortable? Comfortable. However, such adventures have stumbling pitfalls, from which you cannot bring the most pleasant memories with you. We’ve compiled a small checklist on how not to turn an easy adventure into a ruined vacation or even a story with consequences.

First and most important point

Let’s start with the main one. Maybe this relationship will be innocent and limited to kissing and moonlight walks (maybe you just want romance), but… if you play it big, Protect yourself. Whatever the irresistibility and attractiveness of your holiday partner, always, under all circumstances.

Remember that the adventure is coming to an end and the consequences can be dire, from unwanted pregnancies to serious health problems. Remember, no matter how far your bodily contact goes, this person is new and untried.

second point

It started familiar, sparked, you swapped phone numbers to write before a date. At this stage, do not be too lazy to check his social networks and make sure that he is traveling alone. This is important. The rest is unlikely to succeed if you have to hide from prying eyes and a jealous spouse, and a romantic adventure will lose its lightness and ease.

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third point

Abandoning routine should not translate into a complete break from reality. Be careful and do not lean on alcohol, which has fallen into unconsciousness. First, it is dangerous, history can end beyond the permissible limits. Secondly, you run the risk of not showing yourself in the best light and ruining everything by preventing this already short story from developing.

fourth item

Do not be too trusting and do not invite the chosen one to your room, let the adventure develop on its territory. As mentioned earlier, this person is new and untested and therefore you should not risk your personal belongings.

Moreover, sleeping in your room is easier than seeing the guest outside.

Fifth item

A vacation romance has limited time, so don’t waste your precious vacation days looking back and acting shy. If you have seriously decided to participate in this game, take action (either yourself or force him to take active steps). Well, if humility does not allow you to be the initiator of the novel, feel free to respond to signs of attention.

sixth point

Remember this is just an adventure. Yes, such stories turn into something more, but you should not tune in to continue and create illusions. Control your emotions and don’t dive into the pool with your head. Otherwise, instead of warm memories of the holiday, a broken heart will remain.

seventh point

It is possible that the partner wishes to continue communication even after the vacation. But not the fact that this desire will be mutual. Therefore, do not give unnecessary information about yourself: do not give your home address, where the office is, etc. So you will avoid unwanted meetings and unnecessary worries with an annoying fan.