Because he should never let a 2 year old boy (and how to react)

It is not easy to have the impression of turning into punchingball for your heir. However, you have noticed it lately, when it is so small, so cute and that it has a good unicorn scent, Jean’s Eudes also have the annoying tendency to put the cakes. Or worse: he puts his friends of the same age.

Yes, let’s not panic: it’s normal for him to do it. But it’s not because it is normal that it should continue. We give you some little tips that can help you make him understand that not, by registering, it is not something that is done, no but oh.

What to do when a child under two years old is hit?

What is complicated here is that you can think that children don’t understand much of what they are explained. Yet it’s false! Even if a child’s brain is particularly emotional before being rational, which means that he understands what he feels and not what we explain to him – understands our emotions and what we tell him. Simply, the deciphered method has not yet been acquired and the immaturity of its brain does not allow us to grasp all our words and explanations and to act accordingly.

However, at two years, children are at the age in which they understand, without necessarily being able to apply, what is acceptable to do or not and what are the immutable rules of the house. Of course, I am in full apprenticeship and depends on you, parents, keep these rules without derogating from them.

To try to teach your child to type, it’s not something that is done, you can:

• While knocking you, look at it in the eye, without smiling and Tell him in a firm tone (but without anger) That no, let’s not type, is forbidden.
• Do not hesitate to verbalize, to explain Because we don’t type : It hurts, it hurts, it’s not pleasant and when you type, cries, scare. He explains again and again.
• Stay straight in the boots, on your positions and show your child who is a non -negotiable principle, every time a blow is given: Don’t let anything go, never. Repeat again and again that typing is not acceptable.
• Give the example: if you type it alone, give the signal that is something that is done and that is acceptable. Remember: children are what I do, don’t do what I say.
• Be connected to its other parent. If one reacts in one way and the other of another, I don’t get out of it. Establish the rules to be implemented among you when it happens, so that the reaction in front of the act is the same.
• If your child hits anger, because he is faced with frustration and does not know how to express himself in addition to the gestures, Take time to tell him that you understand his anger and he feels. That it is normal not to be happy, but that, even when you feel everything, you shouldn’t type, because it is forbidden.
• Once everything said, that the child has seen your reaction and sees that typing is not an interesting thing, Show him an alternative to the blows : A hug, a caress … take your hand to show him that no, we don’t type, it’s painful, but you can keep your hand or caress the palm, it doesn’t hurt.

Learning

If your child continues to type, it’s normal. It is learning that requires time and that can have failures and feedback. Nothing is acquired, everything is under construction. The main thing is to remain fixed and correct on what is acceptable to do or not, without derogating from it, showing the good example.

And otherwise, if you really put too many cakes, you can also bring it back to motherhood with your return voucher, you never know, with a misunderstanding, it can work.