Today, at the Hall of Inses event, a charity is a public digital peopletalk and the “What (Not) Women” project dedicated to the International Children’s Day. Childhood theme is inseparable with motherhood, because every child has a mother (even if it is not in his life).
Being a modern mother is a real challenge with high expectations. It is very difficult to combine motherhood with a career, to be productive in all areas of life, to burn and not to forget yourself.
Is it ever real? Our experts said – successful girls who prove with an example: Everything is possible, because impossible because you need a little more time. The moderator of the session, the TV presenter, blogger and “Talking about what (not)” was the author of the show. The speakers were: Polina Repik, the founder and general director of Polina Repik brand, Russian Valeria folk artist, blogger Elena Kukoyaka, Beauty Salon Kukoyaka founder Panarinka, Anette Orlova, Psychologist, Sociological Sciences Candidate, Radio presenter.
Polina Repik:
“To be a mother for me to live a few lives for me. When I was my first daughter for me, everything was new and I was worried for the first time. You look at the world through the eyes of a new person, you perceive the world with a completely different approach. <…> When I am my mother again, I am worried about how I have enough love for the second, third and fourth child. The love in you is expanding, it is endless. “
“It’s hard to be an ideal mother, because for each one. I have guilt (because sometimes it can be a” bad mother ” Approximately. Ed.I never feel. How is it? I have four children and work. I started with the fourth child. I spent a different time with each. With the first girl, we were in Tete-a-Tete for six years and I had the idea of doing business during the next pregnancies. And I did it with the fourth child. Everything was right in time. <…> I feel like a manager and I feel happy when I know that every child is busy and satisfied with something. They’re all happy! “
“The most important thing for me is tet-a-tet. It is not so important how much time you spend with your child in a day, it will be 12, five hours or half an hour. In any case, you have passed (even for the morning exercises) and when you are together at that moment. You have direct contact.”
Valeria:
“This is completely surprising when you can look at the nature of children. <…> This is an indescribable happiness that you belong to. “
Orum I remember wearing a clock for myself. I was always trained. In the evening I knew that I had a training session between five and six. I went to the room and now screaming, I called an ambulance or police.
“I have a solid rate – not working on child birthdays.
Anetta Orlova:
For me, every child, first of all, a meeting with qualities that I don’t want to see in myself. So, I came across the security explanations that I just managed to hide almost from myself. At one point I started to see my extreme ends from my children and started to understand that our souls should be done because our soul should be done.
“Where there is too much ideal – there is too much tension. <…> Feeling bad – that means that you are in contact with the fact that you can be different. To feel perfect – this means that you need to do your best, then present your ideal to everyone, and start trade and demand from others to feel that you are good. “
“When parents do everything cool, perfect and without flaws, the children are looking for flaws on the side. It is bad to do something to have your child’s immunity. <…> If you create an ideal atmosphere in it, the child has no contact with a bad part of life and does not understand how it is and tries to look for the outside world. “
Elena Kukoyaka:
“When I don’t pay much attention to Vasilisa, it is often not periodically good enough, larger. Elderly and now jealous for the second child in the family. He still needs more attention because he is too small, and Vasilisa needs the first class, because he sometimes gets upset, but the most important thing we’ve always talked about.
“I made a big mistake during the first pregnancy – I did everything myself and I was afraid to ask for help. I didn’t ask the grandmothers, nanny and girlfriends about it. <…> When my son was four months old, Denis sent me to a hotel to sleep for three days. I said three days of silence. I didn’t communicate with anyone, I didn’t see my friends, and I spent this time alone with myself. ”
In addition, representatives of philanthropist foundation helped women with children in crisis situations by realizing the event. For this reason, the guests have learned more about the following organizations: “Child Plus”, “At night”, orum I hear you ”. The girls talked about their activities and shared touching stories that many invited people could not restrict their tears.
As a result, the speakers remembered that it is important not to forget to devote time to yourself. Sports, early climbing, reading books, watching TV shows, and other banal things that can make you happy in a difficult period help heal.
“Today we talked about not only about mothers, but also about women. We are tired, scared, wrong – but there is love. And we have the right to be different: in the frame and in the back, with children and childless, in the source and without them. The main thing is not to lose yourself and help those nearby.” Assol.
Source: People Talk
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