Aubrey O’Day opens up about her painful breakup with Pauly D.: ‘I had to go to Bali for treatment’ (exclusive)

Danity Kanein Aubrey O’Day he’s opening up about his tumultuous relationship with The Jersey shore Star Paul “DJ Pauly D” Del Vecchio🇧🇷 In an EXCLUSIVE interview with hollywood life, revealed that their relationship, which lasted from 2015 to mid-2017, was so emotionally distressing that she fled to a new country to find herself. “I had to go to Bali. I had to heal. I had to get to a place where I felt comfortable,” the 38-year-old “Damages” hitmaker confessed while promoting his new single, “Couple Goals,” which debuted Nov. 21 via Instagram and a nude video on YouTube. solofans🇧🇷

“And I have a broader perspective of everything. You know, I could take ownership of why I stayed on something so toxic, why, you know, why I endured what I did. I was hurting myself, you know, I didn’t love myself properly,” Aubrey explained. “And I had to take care of myself and grow and learn and evolve and get to a point where now I can release that,” she continued, referring to “Couple Goals”.

“And I’m also doing it just for myself, for my fans, and it’s about the art and not the guy,” added the double platinum artist. “The music and lyrics are what I wrote in my journal at the time. I belong to no one but myself.”

Even though the song is called “Couple Goals,” the lyrics describe the opposite and tell the story of a Pauly D-inspired guy who doesn’t really care about the woman next to him. “Poor, poor girl, you think you have the whole world, but she’s giving you the same show, same story as before,” she sings, referring to the 42-year-old DJ and the reality star’s new relationship.

Digging into the inspiration behind her lyrics, Aubrey said, “He was constantly making fun of me. I’ve been dealing with this since the beginning. It was this gaslighting game. Too many lies and I was getting sick, tired, sick, exhausted, and started comparing myself to women in all sorts of ways. And that’s what girls do when they’re cheated on.” She added, “It’s been an exhausting, exhausting life and I’m glad I’m not living it anymore.”

Pauly D previously denied allegations that her ex cheated on her in his 2019 reality series. Double Shot at Love with DJ Pauly D and Vinny🇧🇷 “Yeah, I don’t do all the cheating,” she told a contestant who expressed concern that she doesn’t take relationships seriously. “It is a waste of time.”

When pressed about the cheating rumors with Aubrey in particular, he doubled down on his statement, calling the idea of ​​cheating “crazy.” Responding to her suitors again, he firmly explained, “Our relationship was on and off. When we left, she did what she wanted. When I was away, I did my own thing. I never. Nonsense. I don’t believe it. I’ve never cheated on any girlfriend I’ve had in my life.

In your chat with hollywood life, Aubrey also revealed why she waited a few years to open up about her “traumatic” relationship with Pauly D and release songs about that time in her life. “I think when you’re going through something traumatic, especially in this day and age where words are so powerful, you are responsible for everything you say,” she articulately explained. “So for me, I really try to make sure I don’t speak up when I’m still emotional about something because, God forbid, I say something that I later regret, or I don’t speak to the highest levels of my integrity, and then I’m stuck. At this “.

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The former couple reportedly met on the set of famous bachelor, one is! show that follows various celebrities who move into a house together to resolve their romantic issues and potentially find love again. The season aired in 2016. As a couple, Aubrey and Pauly D appeared on the eleventh season of Marriage Bootcamp: Reality Stars🇧🇷

As mentioned above, Pauly D has given himself one more chance to fall for his dating reality show, Double Shot at Love with DJ Pauly D and Vinnyin which he starred with his The Jersey shore co-star, vinny earns🇧🇷 The show worked for Pauly D because that’s where he met his current girlfriend, Nicky Lounge🇧🇷 Although they haven’t dated since the first season of the show, Nikki returned for the second season and stole Pauly’s heart.

In the same year, Aubrey appeared ex on the beach, a reality show that she says “gave her life back” in a candid Instagram post. “After my last relationship with Pauly, it took me so long to heal from the pain, anger, torture and toxicity that I found love with him,” she wrote while promoting the series.

At the time of writing, Aubrey is single but seems to have a positive approach to relationships. In an Instagram post on April 7, for example, she said that true love will come to those who set their intentions. “Love is intentional. It’s about choosing to be brave, vulnerable, and also talkative about your limitations all at the same time. The purpose of intention is to grow, build trust, and deepen your relationships…intimacy,” she wrote alongside a bikini-clad photo on a Bali beach. “Being intentional paves the way for a natural progression toward true love. lasting”.