Nicole Kidman has spoken publicly about her divorce from Keith Urban, acknowledging that the breakdown of her 19-year marriage was an unexpected turn in her life. Speaking in a new interview with British Vogue, the 59-year-old Oscar-winning actress reflected on adapting to a reality she had not originally envisioned.
Kidman admitted that the past year unfolded in ways she had not anticipated. She explained that while she once held a different picture of how her life would look, she recognizes that her current circumstances represent her new reality, forcing her to adapt when long-term plans do not materialize.
The actress noted that people often construct detailed plans and expectations for how the future will unfold, only to find those expectations unfulfilled. She stressed that adapting to change is necessary, even as her own future currently remains completely unknown to her.
Life philosophy and emotional response
Describing her approach to this transitional period, Kidman explained that she is prioritizing emotion and striving to remain open to new experiences. She stated that her philosophy involves trying new things, making mistakes, experiencing failure, picking oneself back up, and continuing to move forward while staying receptive to love.
Kidman further revealed that she wants to allow more space for feeling rather than letting pure logic guide every decision. She recalled experiencing moments of fear and heightened sensitivity, describing a period during which she felt deeply vulnerable and exposed.
Addressing those feelings of vulnerability, Kidman observed that facing such exposure presents two options. A person can either choose not to confront the situation and curl up, or choose to push forward with a substantial amount of hope.
Marriage history and family life
Kidman and Urban were married in 2006 and publicly announced their separation in September after 19 years of marriage. Their divorce was officially finalized in January.
The former couple share two daughters together, 18-year-old Sunday Rose and 15-year-old Faith Margaret. Kidman is also the mother of two adult children, 33-year-old Bella and 31-year-old Connor, from her previous marriage to actor Tom Cruise.
Background on Kidman and Urban
Nicole Kidman is an Australian actress and producer who has earned international acclaim, including an Academy Award, for her roles in films such as The Hours and Moulin Rouge!, as well as critically praised television drama series including Big Little Lies.
Keith Urban is a New Zealand-born Australian country music singer, songwriter, and guitarist who has won multiple Grammy Awards throughout his recording career. Kidman was previously married to Hollywood actor Tom Cruise from 1990 until their divorce was finalized in 2001.
British Vogue is a prominent monthly fashion and lifestyle magazine published in London by Conde Nast, frequently featuring high-profile interviews with major figures in international entertainment and culture.
