No touch: What is a contactless energy orgasm and how does it work?

The video, which says “Finger-snap orgasm”, has had a little over 129,000 views, and in the full five-minute video, an expert in the so-called energy or contactless orgasm gets the girl to do it. reaching the top, just acting on some points on his body (and no, not on the points you think). Oscar-worthy acting or just another way to diversify your sex life? In fact, there are very few videos with such applications on the Web, slightly fewer who implement them, and even fewer who believe in them. There is no definitive explanation for such a phenomenon as contactless orgasm, but from the same videos it becomes clear that this is a story about energy metabolism and “communication” with the body without physical contact. To some extent – a deep meditation with a pleasant ending.

The name “contactless orgasm” in general is more of a marketing piece, a trigger, a shiny name for attention. Psychologist, coach and practitioner of energy orgasm Grigory Potemkin confirms: “It’s about working blocks with yourself, with your body, with your head – in fact, many psychological studies, one of the results of which is an energy orgasm. But for beginners, the main thing is to hook. And only then people are divided into two unequal halves: the older one says it’s a game, the younger one shows interest. Those who come for the energy orgasm phenomenon end up getting much more than that.”

Grigory Potemkin

Initially, Grigory Potemkin is a classic armchair psychologist who “repairs the malfunctions of the human psyche.” For ten years she lived in China, where she first became acquainted with energy orgasm practices, and “I soon realized that this is an old, age-old knowledge with different names: they are Taoist energy practices and tantra and energy management, but the essence is the same.” defines it as the ability to transmit remotely.

“All the esoteric tinsel, marketing aside, it all boils down to a very simple skill – it’s the ability to get into deep harmony (communication with a client) and deftly listen to what’s going on in your body. This is the skill of feeling deeply.

According to Grigory Potemkin, in a sense, an energy orgasm can be compared to telepathy (although he does not approve of this word due to the lack of scientific basis under it) – nonverbal communication when you speak without words and gestures. At the same time, this phenomenon is difficult to explain in terms of physiology: “You are asking to explain the situation. You can only feel it for yourself. And this is our marketing hurdle – it is extremely difficult to explain to a rational person what it is and why he needs it.

As Potemkin says, the ability to experience an energy orgasm is inherent in women – it is at the level of “factory settings”, it simply does not develop. “This is one of the languages ​​of communication, the ability to feel another human being,” he explains.

What does the process itself look like? “Practice comes down to the fact that you enter into a relationship with another person, close your head tightly, direct the focus of attention completely on the body, and accustom your soul to listen to what is happening with you at the level of psychosomatic responses. “In front of your partner,” says Grigory Potemkin, adding that for different people these answers can be completely different (“somewhere you will expand, somewhere you will contract, somewhere you will deviate, and somewhere you will be magnetized”). But this requires initial preparation: learning to speak the language of sensitivity, in the body sending signals through sensations to respond with physical impulses: physical sensations in the body” .

According to him, practices are based on a deep harmony between two people, and then an increase in the energy level in the body (squeezing the intimate muscles). And when two people with high energy potential in harmony, feeling each other gracefully and standing at least three meters away from their partner, begin to switch with their hands, these transitions begin to be perceived as a physical blow.

“After about half an hour of such practice, this physical sensation becomes so distinct and so pleasant that it can be compared at the level of orgasm. It’s not the same, but the level of pleasure is similar.”

Of course, it also happens that people are not suitable for each other for certain reasons: for example, girls can associate partners with ex-boyfriends, and the blocks on the head in this case do not allow the body to “open up”.

“If you ask if this is open to everyone, one hundred percent to everyone. But everyone has their own pace of development.

In general, Grigory Potemkin emphasizes that the story about an energy orgasm is, first of all, a story about a healthy soul. And the fewer unresolved injuries in your past, the easier it will be for you to practice. To the logical question, then why is the market not yet full of experts, and people often hear about non-contact orgasm for the first time, he answers: “It’s a matter of time. Most likely, in the next three or four years, this will be an explosion in the scenario, similar to how yoga has evolved over the past few years. Even 20 years ago it was considered something exotic, and now almost everyone with a brain is engaged in it. From my point of view, this is often a way of surviving in the modern world – how can you be effective if you don’t feel “joyful”? Same with the energy orgasm – we have so much ignorance right now. We look at an energy orgasm and say, “What kind of exorcism is this?” we think. But a few years will pass, people will reach out, they will try, it will become part of the norm, sex will change.”

At the end of our conversation, he invites me to his next workshop – a course on energy management and the development of hypersensitivity called “Super Powers”. Do they come out as “new” people? Reviews say yes. And we should only learn from our own experience.