According to industry experts, more middle-aged women are turning to male sexual intimacy coaches to help them achieve orgasm.
According to The Telegraph, women ages 50 to 60 hire somatic therapists for individual experiences or to attend workshops.
The “pleasure gap” refers to the lack of number of orgasms women experience relative to their male partners, and is explored in Emma Thompson’s new movie Good Luck to You, Leo Grande.
In the critically acclaimed film, Thompson stars as a middle-aged widow who recruits a young male prostitute, Leo, after she has to endure a boring marriage that doesn’t end in much fun.
Apparently this happens in real life too; Sebastian Wright, 33, a man who works in the field of sexual intimacy, told the publication that he sees three to four clients a week between the ages of 50 and 20.
According to industry experts, more middle-aged women are turning to male sexual intimacy coaches to help them achieve orgasm. In the photo, Emma Thompson’s new movie Good Luck To You Leo Grande
She explained that it is not unusual for women who come into contact with her to never have an orgasm.
Wright makes escort assignments and also works as a “sexual intimacy and skills coach,” with sessions ranging from a few hours to a week.
To get good guidance you should first get some background information and what they have tried before. Difficulties may be related to a certain stage of life.
Wright also stated that some of his clients experienced trauma or embarrassment that created a “barricade” in their bodies, while others, fearing that they might have anorgasmia (inability to reach orgasm), simply needed foreplay on their bodies.
Emphasizing that fully informed consent is key, the coach added: “It’s extremely important to slow down a woman before she wakes them up. They are often uncomfortable or embarrassed by their bodies.’
Good Luck to You, Leo Grande presents Emma Thompson as a middle-aged widow who recruits a young male sex worker Leo after going through a boring marriage.
Some of her clients also feel that they have become too addicted to sex toys or pornography to climax, and they enlist Wright’s help in avoiding such stimuli.
Explaining why he chose this job, he said, “The world without monogamy matches my curiosity; The more I lived, the more I loved it. I wanted to apply and learn about sexual intimacy coaching.
Meanwhile, Adam Wilder, a “champion of human intimacy and connection,” is Dr. It supports the idea of Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent.
Pleasure consists of three parts – stimulus (touch), context (where and when) and meaning (why and whom you touch) – and women need to be in tune with these three elements to experience the joy of peaking.
Meg Ryan, When Harry Met You Meg Sally showing her character the art of pretending to be an orgasm
In 2012, Wilder founded Shhh Dating, a speed dating company that replaces conversation with peeking and non-verbal connection games, and also shares her own experiences. experience through workshops, retreats and events.
More and more women between the ages of 50 and 60 are starting to attend her sessions, and many of them spend their lives caring for others rather than putting their own needs first.
In her workshops, she focuses on techniques and routines where the goal is to slow down and notice sensations.
Elsewhere, Good Luck to You author Leo Grande told the publication that Leo’s character is based on real-life somatic therapists he met in Germany and the Netherlands.
Source: Daily Mail
