Red flags for men

We have already talked about the danger signs of girls, now let’s find out what guys do and say, this can be considered an alarm bell.

Rudeness towards strangers or service staff

Even if your man treats you well, it is equally important that he treats everyone else with kindness. If he is rude to strangers or service workers on a date, this is an immediate red flag. This behavior will probably spread to you over time.

Insulting ex-lovers

A man who calls all (or most) of his exes “crazy” or otherwise demonstrates an inability to admit his mistakes or take responsibility for his actions. We all have bad things to say about our exes, but we also need to understand what went wrong in the relationship and how it was our fault.

Control

Controlling is a red flag that can lead to the destruction of relationships. This could be indicative of an unhealthy power dynamic in the couple. A few examples of controlling: Makes decisions without consulting you or tries to tell you what to do.

you can’t trust him

A man who is constantly late, doesn’t show up for appointments, or disappears for days is a serious red flag. This is at least a banal show of respect – a man should value your time and emotions.

gas lighting

Gaslighting is a serious red flag for a man because it involves manipulating someone to make their partner doubt their words and memories. Gaslighting can also manifest itself by minimizing the victim’s feelings or experiences, denying the events that have occurred, and much more.

Relationships develop very quickly

Excessive affection or declaration of love, especially at the beginning of a relationship, can be a warning sign. This behavior, which may be called “love bombing,” should not occur until just a few weeks or months into the relationship. This could even be a tactic where a guy is trying to make you feel quick so you don’t pay attention to other red flags in the future.