Sometimes girls, in a moment of anger, forget about etiquette and say such offensive words to their chosen one, after which an invisible wall seems to have grown between them. Moreover, in most cases we say them so often that we do not even suspect how painful they can be. We have collected the 30 best phrases that repulse men when meeting and destroy even strong unions.
“Do you love me?”
It may seem like a harmless question, but it can make your partner feel uneasy about not paying enough attention to you. On the other hand, a man may think you are insecure if you constantly have to show your emotions.
“Why did not you call me”
There may be thousands of reasons. First, answer this question honestly for yourself. If you call during business hours, you were busy. If your relationship has gone wrong, the answer is obvious. You don’t need to get to the bottom of it, but make sure he wants to stay in touch with you. Don’t be a control freak, everyone needs some freedom.
“You owe me”
An adult has a sense of responsibility, but he decides for himself what he should and should not do. If you want to ask for something, do it. It’s beautiful and I’m grateful. Demands only scare men.
“I can not live without you”
Nobody likes to have someone helpless next to them. With this sentence you signal sacrifice. Not all men like to feel that their absence torments them, so they prefer to completely break off relations with an obsessive young lady.
“You don’t have time for me”
The key is “on me”. So it’s for everyone but not for you. With this sentence, you are giving him the message that there are things more important than yourself. Get busy yourself, and then you will have nothing to blame your chosen one for. A bored slacker is unlikely to become the girl of his dreams.
“I’m unhappy without you”
With this sentence, you overestimate his importance and underestimate your own importance. They say only a boring person can be bored. People are drawn to those who spread joy.
“You are late”
Believe me, he knows this. Maybe he’s ashamed. He hasn’t figured out how to make amends yet, and you’ve already made a claim against him. If you’re unhappy with someone arriving late to a meeting, then maybe they didn’t wait at all.
“I told you”
Yes, well done, take the cake off the shelf! I really want to answer. The truth is that everyone makes mistakes, but it is ugly to emphasize your superiority once again.
“But my ex…”
After this sentence, I just want to answer: “Then go to your ex! What did you forget here? And he will be right. It is unlikely that anyone would be flattered by comparison with a former partner. As an example, imagine he gives you his ex-girlfriend. Definitely!
“A real man…”
Male or female, we are all human. Living is not a dream. Your boyfriend doesn’t have to meet your expectations. With this sentence you seem to be telling him that you are not a man.
“But my friend has a husband…”
If you want your man to achieve the same success as your friend’s partner, the worst way to do the opposite is to devalue his accomplishments by using this comparison.
“You are just like everyone else”
With this sentence you seem to be telling him that he is not special. A man is unlikely to like being deprived of his right to individuality. Most likely, he will not challenge your words, but will just try to impress another girl.
“Wash yourself, you stink”
What if he tells you to take your hair out of your comb? Now do you understand how offensive that sounds? You can always give subtle tips on maintaining hygiene.
“It’s not small, decide for yourself”
With this sentence, you scold him like a mother. Why this parental tone? Compare: “You can do it, I believe in you.” The message is the same but it sounds completely different.
“Thank you, I already did this myself.”
Yes, men cannot always offer timely help, but this does not mean that they refuse or do not want to provide support. This fatal accusation can greatly damage your self-esteem and discourage any desire to help.
“You’re always doing something wrong”
But it doesn’t always have to be perfect! If something doesn’t work out for him at home or at work, you can explain it calmly. You are a couple. Help shouldn’t come only from men.
“We need to talk”
Of course, he is not shy about speaking up, but the dramatic tone in which the girls pronounce this phrase can lead to a heart attack.
“Everything is fine”
Unfortunately, this phrase sounds like “fuck you.” He will unconsciously blame himself for your bad mood.
“Obvious”
Usually this word is said when nothing is actually clear, but the person is not in the mood to discuss the topic further. After all, the result has already been made. He “understands” everything. Therefore, the man feels like the last scoundrel.
“Do whatever you want”
He realizes that behind the ostentatious indifference lies a trick. After all, you don’t want him to do what he wants, like going to the pool with his friends without you.
“What happened? Nothing!”
He may actually understand that he upset you, but he may not know why. There are words for this, not accusations. There is no need to make fun of the question.
“Go if you want! I’m not holding you.”
Of course, “you don’t.” After saying this, the man understands that if he does what you want, he will make you angry.
“Then go to someone else and let them take care of you.”
Most likely, he will do this if you remind him of the existence of others more often. Ability to respond more legibly in crisis situations.
“Have you ever listened to me? Repeat what I say”
Maybe he was listening, maybe he wasn’t. You spoke for too long and incoherently, so he didn’t interrupt you. There is no need to organize an exam. You’d better come to your senses and return to the conversation calmly.
“Children have nothing to eat”
These and other statements with a dramatic touch often exaggerate the real situation. The problem is not that the children have nothing to eat, it is just that the man does not earn as much as you expected. Try to solve this problem constructively and do not stage Shakespearean tragedies at home.
“Did I gain weight?”
Girls can decide for themselves whether they are gaining weight or not. Most importantly, they want to understand whether they are still attractive or not. Even if a man is completely satisfied with the appearance of his chosen one, this question seems to force him to examine her appearance more meticulously. What scares men the most is their unpredictable reaction when they answer this constantly repeated question honestly.
“Stop suffering through nonsense. Get busy”
Most of all, she is offended when a man acts disdainfully towards her interests. Does he have the right to take a break from work and pursue his favorite hobby? That doesn’t automatically make him lazy. It is unlikely that he will tell you the same thing when you open the next episode of “The Magnificent Century”.
“What kind of girl is this?”
Guys really don’t like it when you turn into a detective and see a rival in every girl. Work on your self-esteem. She should not stop communicating with female colleagues or childhood friends.
“Do it for me”
Usually this phrase is said after a man refuses several times to comply with a request. There may be various reasons for this, for example financial difficulties. It seems like he wants to please you but doesn’t dare to reject you after this sentence.
“Yes, I don’t want to go anywhere anymore.”
If you have been arguing for a long time about where to go but cannot come to an agreement, the worst option is to act like a blank wall. After this sentence, you will be left with a feeling of inadequacy and heaviness that comes from never being able to please you.
Source: People Talk
Errol Villanueva is an author and lifestyle journalist who writes for The Fashion Vibes. With a passion for exploring the latest trends in fashion, food, travel, and wellness, Errol’s articles are a must-read for anyone interested in living a stylish and fulfilling life.
