Love to the grave: true stories of people who cast love spells

It seems that love spell stories only exist on the web pages of women’s forums. And all dreams about love to the grave with those who don’t love you are unhealthy fantasies of lonely people. But what was my surprise after the news about the unexpected wedding of Pharaoh (Gleb Golubin) with Sonya Egorova, a participant of the reality show “Battle of psychics”, when the whole Twitter feed discussed how the rapper was fascinated?

After several hours of reading the comments under popular tweets, it turned out that almost one in three girls turned to witches to bewitch their lover. A friend of mine, for whom this story ended well, said, “I was afraid to do the ceremony with church candles, I had to use the threads with which the hands of the dead were wrapped.” And by the happy ending, he only means the fact that the connoisseur is a charlatan in the end who does not captivate anyone.

In general, according to our small survey of people with mystical abilities, both women and men resort to love magic. True, the latter is still in the minority. Oddly enough, the main purpose of such actions is the right to be happy and loved, even if it goes against the will of another person.

How do spells work and why are they dangerous?

“Love magic is the work of breaking a person’s will and subjugating him. If a man has no feelings and no desire to enter into a relationship, as a result of the rite, he ceases to belong to him, begins to be attracted to the person who fascinates him. And it is impossible to resist this desire, ”says the witch Natalya Maksimova.

True, everything is not so simple here. Not everyone can fall in love with you, but only the person with at least some kind of contact, ideally a close relationship, can fall in love with you. Therefore, if the random Masha wants to bewitch Leonardo DiCaprio, it is unlikely that she will succeed.

The results of such rituals, according to Natalia, are difficult to predict. “This is Russian roulette: someone flies and someone comes out of the water dry. And in general, no matter how absurd it may sound, it is better to cast all love spells not from big feelings, but from calculation. It’s not a pity by calculation: I got what I wanted from a man and goodbye.

The cost of a love spell in the “black services” market ranges from 1 thousand rubles to 100 thousand. It all depends on the level of professionalism and experience. For example, in Avito, witches sell their services very cheaply. An advertisement for a woman casting a love spell on the Internet reads: “I will return my lover for 2 thousand rubles.” Only two photos are required – of you and your fortune teller.

Another category is the witches in the village. Price tags are much higher, but there are no negative comments. They themselves live far from civilization, and all rituals are performed in the cemetery. For the weak of heart it is better not to know them at all.

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True stories of people who cast love spells

Natalya

This story happened to my ex-girlfriend Anya 10 years ago. She married a good and decent man at the age of 19, she. Not to say it’s crazy love. Rather, it’s just a profitable alliance.

After two years of marriage, Anya began to “walk”. He did not have a permanent girlfriend, he changed men according to his mood. So he met Nikita (Name changed at the request of the hero). The man was clearly in the category where nothing but good sex would happen. But Anya was so dependent on him that she wanted to be his only one.

Nikita did not need this at all. I don’t know for sure, but I think it changes girls like gloves. And then she decided to bewitch him “as a joke” just to keep him faithful. I found a hereditary witch near Chekhov and went to him. I don’t remember the details of the whole deal. I just know that your personal belongings are needed to perform the ritual.

The love spell worked, Nikita chased after him like a child. And when he got hers, he completely lost interest in it. As a result, Anya’s husband found out about their secret love, packed her things and kicked her out the door. At that moment she decided that saving the marriage would be much more important than saving her lover.

She broke up with Nikita and was found hanging in the house a week later. Anya herself was diagnosed with cancer a few years later.

Pauline

Years ago, my great-grandfather was fascinated by another woman and was taken from the family. His wife, my great-grandmother, was a powerful witch and hurt his mistress out of anger.

As a result, a demon possessed this woman. She periodically spoke in a male voice, and in principle she did very strange and frightening things. She was taken to the local temple for confession, but she didn’t get any better. Each time she came back to this state again. There was a situation where they were sitting at the table and before eating anything she asked herself if she could do this, and a hoarse male voice replied “no” she.

One year, my great-grandfather and his new girlfriend moved into a new flat. They made repairs themselves, pasted wallpaper everywhere and bought new furniture. Then one night he started shouting “he didn’t like it” and scratched all the walls of this apartment with his nails. A few weeks later he was found boiled in boiling water.

Alexandria

We met a man on the Internet. He took such good care of me, spent time with me all the time, but one day he honestly told me that he was married. According to him, he did not love his wife for a long time and wanted to leave her. And he didn’t lie about it. After six months of our relationship, he told his wife that he was leaving. As soon as their conversation started, he called me and said that he had gathered something and would be with me in a few hours. However, he disappeared after this search.

Two weeks later, his wife suddenly had a heart attack. And then the strange pains began. According to neighbors, he was constantly being taken by ambulance, but no one could determine the diagnosis. As a result, the woman ended up in a psychiatric clinic. Not only did her husband stay with her, she began to slander me for bewitching her, feeling guilty in front of her. She constantly threatened me that she would hurt me and would do anything to make my life in general worse than her wife’s.

But when he finally learned that his wife was going to leave him for me, he turned out to be fascinated. Therefore, he had all these strange diseases that doctors could not identify. The man is still not enough, and even after all these years he does not believe that his wife has fascinated him.

Why do people use love spells to fall in love with someone else?

Reviews of Irina Bukina – gestalt therapist, curator of Yasno online psychotherapy service

Love and compassion are basic needs. But you can’t buy the first one in the store. It is necessary not only to believe in the mutual desire of another, but also to love yourself. When they do not reciprocate, it causes frustration – anger, disappointment, despair. A person may feel acute mental pain that he wants to get rid of as soon as possible.

Most often, love spells are used by people who do not know themselves well, do not know how to distinguish between their own and other people’s feelings, and cannot adequately accept a rejection. This is a childish way of dealing with the anxiety of losing an important person, the fear of loneliness, the feeling of powerlessness.

What is the “inadequate” need for love connected with?

American psychoanalyst and psychologist Karen Horney calls this the “neurotic need for love.” If a child lacks parental (primarily maternal) feelings, he develops a neurotic personality type. The child constantly hugs his mother, is afraid to let her go, and cannot calm down when his mother returns. In adulthood, such a person experiences severe and sometimes unconscious anxiety. He fears rejection and at the same time does not consider himself worthy of love: his fear and hostility turn into an obsessive desire to find “true love.”

How can you help yourself if the love object does not reciprocate?

When a relationship is unrequited or broken, the person experiences a loss. Even if the relationship did not reach any level, the lover had expectations, hopes for a common future. Here are some business tips to help you overcome unrequited feelings.

Allow yourself to experience any emotion. Watch your thoughts, even the craziest. Don’t get carried away with emotions or plan revenge. They are just feelings, experiences and thoughts. They will go as they came.

Find safe ways to express strong emotions. You can cry, hit the pillow, scream, go to practice, write your thoughts in a journal or write a letter to a loved one (but don’t send it).

Talk to someone you trust about your feelings. It can be friends, relatives or a psychologist. Make a list of people to call or write to when you’re really alone.

When feelings subside a little and thoughts about a loved one stop causing acute pain, write down all the pleasant memories, discoveries and achievements that arose because of the feeling. Anything valuable.

Along with the list of values, it is worth compiling a list of inconveniences and difficulties that can arise from reciprocity. Any “no” always carries some relief. Since there is no relationship, there is no need to make an effort and take additional obligations to maintain them.