I waited 44 years to have my first vaginal orgasm

This famous one vaginal orgasm. I had heard about it, in particular from a friend who had described her sensations to me, and the difference with the clitoral orgasm.

I listened to it, like a beautiful story. I was familiar with the clitoral orgasm, which I had discovered while stroking myself in adolescence.

Vaginal orgasm, unknown for a long time

Then I started making love. Depending on the partner, I had many sensations, sometimes a wave of pleasure during penetration. But it never exploded. However, I am very free in my sexuality, I have tried many things. A slightly older man spent hours caressing me and exploring my vaginal pleasure. The pleasure increased but did not disappear. I had resigned myself to being part of the category of women who didn’t have vaginal orgasms. I was content to caress myself during penetration and enjoy it like that, which is still very pleasant.

Then I met a beautiful Spaniard, we stayed together for a year and a half, we made love very often. His cock was quite small, but his ardor drove me crazy with pleasure.

But what if I really wanted to come I had to stroke myself. Life meant we had to separate, I was very unhappy. I feared the moment when I would make love with another man again, I was afraid of being sad and of not rediscovering the bond I had with my ex-lover.

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A more widespread and deeper orgasm

And there I met Clément, on a dating app. He was 38 years old, a little young for me who was 44. As soon as he kissed me I dived into an ocean of sweetness and pleasure. He placed his lips very delicately against mine, played with my tongue, it was ultra sensual. I felt immediate and obvious pleasure. Great confidence and a lot of emotion. She explored my penis with her tongue. I was surprised that she didn’t hurt me. Men are often clumsy, their tongue is too hard, they don’t lick in the right place. With Clément it was just pure pleasure, so much sweetness and voluptuousness.

When we made love it was the same, he listened to my body, he went very slowly, in perfect connection with my sexual energy. It was incredible, I had never experienced this! His cock was bigger than my ex’s, longer. During sex she kept looking into my eyes, kissing me, stroking my hair, telling me I was beautiful… What a feat!

In a little back and forth, I felt a wave of immense pleasure and like little tingles that invade my stomach, then a great relief and satisfaction. I realized that I had enjoyed myself.

Very different from clitoral orgasm, with less spasms, something more widespread, more profound. The fantastic thing is that we continued to make love and the orgasm returned several times. With the clitoral orgasm I had to wait until the next day to do it again.

Very happy with this discovery, I couldn’t wait to find out if I could find this orgasm without my beautiful lover. Back home I caressed myself with a sex toy without clitoral stimulation. Penetration only. I thought about him, about exciting things. The orgasm came within minutes. Amazing, it was so easy! Before I had to stimulate myself long enough to come, I sometimes had trouble getting aroused.

There it “takes” as soon as I feel the penetration, there is precisely a point that makes me detach in the vagina, on the upper wall, or rather at the bottom, with small movements, like jerks. I thought the G-spot was in the center of the vagina. In my case, you have to look deeper. It’s as if life had given me a beautiful gift, to console me for my pain.

I continue to see my beautiful lover from time to time to explore a world of delicious pleasures. I tame this new orgasm, I learn to wait for it, to savor it. It comes every time, intense, deep.

I’m curious if I’ll cum just as easily with another man now that the trigger has been made in my body. To see with my next lover…

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