If you are familiar with the feeling of emptiness after communicating with a person, you have most likely encountered an energy vampire. And no, this is not the story of a lion falling in love with a lamb. Simply put, energy vampires are people whose communication with them causes at least a loss of strength, and at most a feeling of extreme fatigue and apathy. Therefore, if you do not want to face such people, we have collected several signs by which you can identify an energy vampire. We are talking about them.
Things are always bad for them. And everyone is responsible for this. They are often dramatic and want to be pitied. What’s interesting is that when other people talk about their problems, energy vampires either don’t listen or trivialize them.
Unsolicited advice. Do you know the kind of person who doesn’t need a reason to share their valuable ideas? So energy vampires believe they can give advice with or without reason. Because they know better.
You cannot have a heart-to-heart conversation with them. Every time you delve deeper into a topic than he or she would like, be prepared for the conversation to slowly (or not so smoothly) devolve into a joke or accusations that you’re minding your own business.
Manipulation. Energy vampires need to understand that a person is emotionally dependent on them and is under their control. For this reason, they can often impose feelings of guilt.
Obsessiveness. It usually manifests itself as constant requests for help or emotional support. And no, we’re not suggesting you reject everyone, but if you feel like a person wants more than you can give them, that’s a clear sign that communication should be stopped.
Source: People Talk
Errol Villanueva is an author and lifestyle journalist who writes for The Fashion Vibes. With a passion for exploring the latest trends in fashion, food, travel, and wellness, Errol’s articles are a must-read for anyone interested in living a stylish and fulfilling life.
